Soc Sci 11 Project: Blind Date

THE MOVES
*ENGLISH ONLY PLEASE

BEFORE
1. Ask someone out on a date
Ex:
Howd you like to go out
Lets do that together
I heard youlike horror movies.. Would yiu like to see

2. Write the movie of your dating life

3. Psyche yourself up
-treat the date as simple getting to know each othe
-remind yourself that your date already like something about u (turn on)
-dont drive yourself crazy

4. Look and smell your best
-haircut/hairstyle
-civilian (optional)
-cup your hand over your mouth and check your breath

5. Decide if you want your date to be blindfolded/both of you will be blindfolded/as is

DURING
6. Introduce yourself and offer a firm handshake or beso beso

7. Smile and eye contact

8. Compliment your date's appearance

9. Say:

A. Pick up line

B. Charming romantic opener
Ex.
Can i check your shirt label to see if you were made in heaven

C. Self disclosure opener
Ex:
This is the first time ive been here
I aways feel comfortabe in small groups do you..

D. Coversation openers
Ex
Current events
Interesting or odd stories
The weather
Health
Common Interests

10. Flirt

F-lattery (make sure its sincere)
Ex:
You have beautiful eyes

L-isten

I-nterest

R-esponsible

T-rusting

S-mile

11. Give a token gift to your date

12. Address your date by name frequently

13. Tell a joke

14. Dance (slow/modern/twerk) with your date with your fave music (bring your own sounds)

15. Eat (u can feed each other)
-Bread, corn

16. Q and A:
Ask intriguing question 5 W's

Ex:
Whos your favorite actor/relative/friend?
Whats your favorite thing to do?
Where is your favortite place to go
When was the last time you treated yourself
Why did you come here?

-get to know his values
-get to know his or her lifestyle

Do Not talk about:
1. Other attractive people
2. About previous dates
3. Bringing subjects abot people who are very opinonated
4. Launching into sex talk
5. Talk about morbid

17. Kiss any part of your body(optional)

18. Touch any part of your body (optional)

19. Walk aroud the room

20. Shared story stelling (movie of your datinglife)
-throw out a line to start the story

You say: were having breakfast on our hotel terrace on the beach on the Greek island of Crete

He/she say: im feedibg you a champagnedipped strawberry. Your fingers lighty glidey u and down my back.

Reflection point:

Do your ideas spark one another

21. Nonverbal ways to show your interesred

Presenting
Preening
Parading
Posturing

22. Take a selfie, put it in your journal

23. Offer a polite end to a wonderful date, tell him/her what a wonderful time you had and how lucky he/she was to spend it with you

AFTER
24. Grade your date (both)
Criteria: 1/2 index card

Create
C-reative
R-elaxing and romantic
-be sweet and express your feelings
E-ntertaining
A-ctive
T-alkative
E-xceptional

At the back:

What i like about my date?
What i did not like about my date?
Comments and Suggestionsd

25. Write your journal